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“If you don’t love this country, get the hell out!”

I have heard and read these words more in the last four years and counting than I wish. I don’t really understand this sentence. Further, I KNOW I love my country (and I am NOT going anywhere), but I still hope America can change.

When and how did asking America to change become synonymous with not loving America? Yes, I would argue Colin Kaepernik brought this issue to the national consciousness and sparked personal and professional conversations everywhere, but he is only one of a significant lineage. I do not wish to take anything away from the strength and conviction that Colin Kaepernik has shown in his pursuit for racial justice, but I truly believe that each one of us, as Americans or those who reside in this country in whatever capacity, have a desire for America to change in some way.

Asking America to change might be the ULTIMATE expression of love.

If you are a parent or work with children or are simply around children in any capacity, you will be witness to inappropriate or “bad” behavior. If you care about that child in any way, you will take actions to correct the behavior and make sure it does not continue to happen in the future. You will ask that child to change because you want them to be the best versions of themselves possible, now and into the future. You ask them to change because you love them. In my opinion, if you DO NOT ask a child to change and correct inappropriate, bad behavior, that is a significant lack of love. In my life, I will continue to ask children my country, and MYSELF to change bad behavior, and this will be done with a love for ALL.

I would like America to change because I DO LOVE THIS COUNTRY.